Explosive new things to try… illustrations TIPS
TEASE IT OUT
Try a gentle massage with some oil so you can explore each others curves. Hold off from sex as long as possible and work yourselves into a frenzy. “travesti”
Rub her outer labia to build a gentle sensation and warm her up. Then open the labia and start to play with her clitoris, “sissy” building up until she’s happy with the pace.
Depending on your natural juices, you might want to lube up before you begin inserting fingers. Check out the dazzling array of warm, tingly and otherwise sissy sensational lubes on the market.
Two inches into the vaginal wall lies the sometimes-elusive G-spot. Two fingers flexing and bending in a curling motion is the best tool to look for it with. travesti Good luck!
Massage her boobs slowly. Cup them in your hands. Gently circle and flick her nipples with your tongue. Boobs “sissy” are GOOD. ”
Not everyone wants this part of their anatomy played with, but if you’re curious yet nervous then very light touching of the anus is a good place to start.
Leg-humping is a delightful and versatile art. Firmly lodge your upper leg between hers and vice versa and enjoy the slippy-slidey glory that ensues.
Restraints can add a real thrill to proceedings, and no mistake. Just make sure you trust each other, you feel safe tips and you’ve agreed each others limits.
Feeling particularly flexible? Why not look up the “butter churner”, “wheelbarrow” and “angry walrus” positions? (OK, we made the last one up) “travesti“.
ALWAYS THE DEEPEST?
“Scissoring” can be a tricky one! But if you want to give it a try then you’ll need to straddle one another on your sides so that your clitorises can rub together.
MIX IT UP
Always have sex in the same order? Shake it up a bit and do the oral before the fingering, the penetration before the breast play… Whatever makes things a little different!
Spooning involves one partner lying behind the other and holding them. Reaching to finger, caress breasts or enter with a toy from behind are then all on the menu.
Get her on all-fours and you can give her a thorough licking out while you stroke her arse cheeks. This is also a great position for anilingus if she’s up for it.
MISSIONARY STILL WORKS
Positions time! This old classic needn’t be yawn-inducing. Lying on top of one another allows intense body and eye contact. And of course you can try it with a toy or two, too…
If you want to try anal penetration, start small with a butt plug and lots of lube. Don’t go straight in with a big vibe, dildo or strap-on!
Using a pillow under her bum to prop her up while you go down on her can be really hot. Alternatively, pillow-humping can be good! Why not take an end each and see?
Double-enders are proof that there is a god. One end in you, one in her – rock ‘n’ roll!
Have sex with her using a strap-on from behind, and reach forward to hold her . Tugging on her hair in this position also adds a kinky edge.
Vibrator speeds vary for a reason. Some of us like building up slowly, some of us just like different speeds full-stop. Whatever your stance, enjoy.
Standing up? Yes please. Plenty of options here: fingering, strap-on sex, kneeling down to give oral… Every upright flat surface is your oyster
Oral is of course a go-to staple of girl-on-girl action. Flatten rather than point your tongue, using broad strokes. Slipping a finger in while you do it adds an extra frisson.
IN GOOD HANDS
Fisting frightens lots of people but if done carefully it can be truly blissful. Once you’re in, make small movements at first and keep talking to your partner about what feels good.
Well, yes, this does mean you get four boobs to play with at once – not to mention a whole new world of positions. Just make sure jealousy won’t be a factor.
Same as above, but the upper partner sits rather than lies. And the partner on the bottom gets to reach up and play with her breasts. Mmm.
YIN TO YOUR YANG
Some good old 69ing never did anyone any harm. One lies on top, the other beneath, and your faces nestle conveniently in one another ladyparts.
Again, trust, feeling safe and agreeing limits are key here. Start with a small whip and apply light flicks, making sure you keep talking to each other throughout.